From Our Spirit to Eros.

Our desire to love always finds a way out of any trap. To keep our desire for love captive for long is not possible. When our desire to love does not come out to make babies, we show our desire to love in every other way. We're money gathering, altruistic, the arts, family nurturing, philosophy, science, politics, empire building, charity, war, abuse, crime . . . you name it. Much of it is good. Some of it is horrid. For better or worse, it is all an aspect of the life force in us. It's the display of our desire. Our great bounty of desire to love is DNA driven. It's built in. We own it.
The key to manage the desire of our spirit of love is not to squelch or medicate it. Let's find a natural channel that will fulfil our deeper urges. This takes some wilful thought. We need a better system of self care. It can help us expand our desire to love in a new, sweet manner.
If we really want to, we can know the truth and be set free, just like Jesus said. The core element in this is our desire. We can open our gate way to the divine if we choose to.